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The person with this concern
January 30, 2024 at 12:32 pm #1127934

I would like to thank each and everyone of you who took time to reply and give me advice. Your words have given me time to think and notice a lot of things that I wasn’t really paying attention to. It’s like I have a new perspective on this relationship.
We’ve talked on video calls where he showed me his house, I haven’t met anyone of his friends but he did send me pictures of his close friend who recently got married.
Yesterday we were talking and I asked about his work schedule but he told me that he has a day off, I didn’t think much of it until he said “I thought I’d already mentioned it” and that made me wonder if it was me who forgot telling him something like this, what would his reaction be?! So I just replied with “well you didn’t tell me” I’m not sure if I’m just over thinking about it but he became extra sweet and even the good morning message he sent me was not his usual and it just seemed as he felt guilty about it and was trying to distract me.
I’m definitely taking a step back and revaluating this relationship because the last thing I wanna do is waste my late 20s in a toxic and unhealthy relationship.