Reply To: “My Mom Asked My Fiancé to See His Old Wedding Photos”

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KA
January 30, 2024 at 1:08 pm #1127936

I think you are mixing up your trauma with an abusive busy body mother and possibly the normal sharing that your boyfriend is doing. Now that you are finally cutting her off it feels like you are possibly drawing the line too far? I would want to know how often your fiancé is sharing old photos and with whom and what prompted the sharing (someone asking, the other people he is sharing with also being in the pictures or on the trips, etc.), before I would pass judgement on this topic.

I might suggest some pre-marital counseling to work through this issue as well as make sure you guys learn to have constructive healthy communication. My guess is you learned some very dysfunctional patterns from your mom. A pre-marital health check now might save you an expensive divorce later.