Reply To: “My Mom Asked My Fiancé to See His Old Wedding Photos”

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ron
January 30, 2024 at 5:48 pm #1127942

It is not disrespectful to you that your fiance had a life prior to you, has pictures from that former life, and is willing to show them to others. Your mother asked to see a (as in one) picture from your fiance’s prior wedding in order to see what his hair looked like (and, admittedly probably to mock him for losing said hair). His being willing to indulge your mother in this is in no way disrespectful to you. To him, it’s a relatively easy way out of an uncomfortable situation which you and your mother put him in. Yes, your mother likely would have also seen what his ex looked like. So what? If you can’t handle that, then I guess you need to keep your fiance away from your mother and likely stay away from her yourself. She was already being rude to him by the time you shut her down. Your question to him and your response were out of bounds. You asked, he gave you an honest answer. I doubt he wanted to talk to your mother.