Thank you all so much for taking the time. Yes she has pushed away everyone. She doesn’t have a single friend and her and my dad are mid separation at 75 years old after years of hell.
When I try and set boundaries or exit the conversation, she gets more angry and says she needs to be able to talk about this. And then she blames me in-laws for putting her in this situation to be made out to look like the bad guy. When I tell her talking about this makes me feel stressed, her response is that pregnancy is not “all butterflies and rainbows”. It just feels like a battle I can never win, even just the smallest move as trying to set a boundary.