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Anonymousse
February 18, 2024 at 9:11 am #1128205

You need to find some kind of therapist or counselor and work through this with a professional. You are a college student, your school should have resources available to you. If they don’t, you need to tell your parents that you’re having a hard time and need help. If you are paying thousands for a college education, the school is supposed to have help for you.

To me, it doesn’t sound at all like you love or respect him. He’s asked you to leave him alone, and you leave him a letter and artwork on his car at work, on Valentines Day? It’s too much, it’s borderline creepy. You have convinced yourself you can’t go in without him, but you’re going to have to. There’s no going back when you both have hurt eachother so much. You should look into codependency issues. He doesn’t want to be with you. He wants to be alone. Respect his wishes and leave him alone.

Do you have friends? You need to make some. You need to forget this guy and focus on your present. College, making friends, doing well in school and working on your own personal confidence and happiness.