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Anonymousse
February 18, 2024 at 10:06 am #1128207

Quite honestly, he’s been too nice. If an ex left me something on my car, at work, on Valentine’s Day after asking them to leave me alone, I would probably be contacting the police and filing for a restraining order. I’m not saying he is going to, but he could. He has evidence of you not abiding his wishes and bothering him. It doesn’t seem like he’s angry at you, but if you keep this up you could find yourself in more trouble. Listen to what he’s said, and do indeed leave him alone.

This is not love, this is obsession. You need to tell your parents that you are struggling and that you need help. If you can’t talk to them, ask a friend to help you. This is serious. This can affect you for a long time if you don’t seek help. I wish you the best, truly. Get better, but leave him alone. I know it hurts.