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KA
February 19, 2024 at 5:19 pm #1128231

You mention a LOT of violence between you and your boyfriend and ALSO violence with your mom. I suspect your family of origin is totally messed up on how they deal with conflict and that there is abuse in the picture. When you have been modeled this behavior all your life, you will find it EXTREMELY difficult to have a truly healthy relationship until you address this professionally. GET A THERAPIST.

What you are doing now is borderline if not outright stalking. You are addicted to the drama, the highs and lows, and your fantasies of what this relationship magically COULD have been. You need to accept the relationship is OVER and do some serious therapy so that you can have a wonderful bright future. You are young. You have plenty of time.