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February 27, 2024 at 10:31 am #1128327

Deconstructing and unlearning internalized beliefs is a lot of work. I guess good for him if he is at least trying to do the work here, but I had the same thought that this is the kind of inner work that is often slow and requires more than just reading a book and posting to the gram.

I will also say, more generally speaking, that it’s easier to spend some time with someone you are interested in to get to know than trying to read between the lines of what you’ve creeped out on the internet. It sounds like you barely know him at all, just run in similar circles/spaces, but you’ve already jumped ahead to whether or not you should be dating having spent no meaningful time together.

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