Reply To: I cannot tell if this is a green flag or the reddest flag ever.

I would say best case, he’s genuinely seen the error of his ways and wants to reform. Worst case could be dangerous though, if he’s not sincere and is consciously using this shtick to try and attract women.

In the best case scenario there I think of my uncle, who I think is a total tool and is both racist and sexist, but other family members point out how much progress he’s made and how he’s really trying and is a good man.

In the worst case scenario I think of some real creepy narcissistic and controlling scammers. Guys who basically want to be a cult leader. My husband’s old college roommate spouts all kinds of “light worker divine feminine” bullshit on FB but he’s a bad bad man.