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February 28, 2024 at 11:00 pm #1128371

So, I thought this was the commenter who had posted a couple times who wanted a guy’s number and they’d hung out for six hours but asking for his number was still somehow too weird.

Anyway, I thought/think it’s weird to be able to point out someone’s potentially serious flaws while still so clearly wanting their interest. But I do stand by what I said. If it’s a yellow fag **to you**, proceed with caution. (Same could be said for red flags that aren’t outright dealbreakers.) And social stalking as a way of “getting to know” someone is problematic. But if you’re Taco Tuesday, therapy.

This wasn’t a first date since it was a group outing/invite for the entire book club. It sounds like two acquaintances, one of whom was playfully elbow nudging the other in the ribs at the mention of their shared space.

T H E R A P Y.