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HeartsMum
March 6, 2024 at 3:45 pm #1128425

As others have wisely said, this has the hallmarks of a scam—which anyone can fall for, at any time. It’s common for scammers throughout history to lull potential victims into not being concerned about their own money by projecting wealth. Seems like a lot of effort, but some folks just prefer grift to graft. If you can’t give up on the idea of this guy, set a limit on how long til a video call (3 days?), and an in-person meet up (2 weeks?). Think about why you have invested so much emotionally, for so little return. Is there any way you can focus your efforts on truly available people?