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Golfer.gal
March 14, 2024 at 4:48 pm #1128501

Bingo. I’m hearing a dialogue that is 100% about you and your needs while openly dismissing and frankly insulting your wife. It is nothing short of outrageous that you are insisting she’ll feel comfortable in inherently uncomfortable clothing like g-strings, when she has DIRECTLY TOLD you the exact opposite. You are mansplaining your wife’s own feelings and experiences to her. Wow. You’re so tone deaf to her expressed needs and feelings that I’m not at all sure we can believe you when you say she’s happy.

Jimmy Knowles has a lot of great content about this that might speak to you, check out his YouTube channel Jimmy on Relationships. In fact he just posted a video about how to get your wife in the mood when things have died down. Spoiler alert: it comes down to carrying your share of the mental load, childcare, and mutual chores, prioritizing giving her time for self care, and lots of emotional validation, empathy, and non-sexual intimacy and connection.