Reply To: Am I the problem??

Maybe talk to some of your friends, female and male, about how a man treats a woman when he’s genuinely interested. Off the top of my head, he’ll call you all the time, make plans so you can see each other, take you to places he thinks you’ll like, introduce you to and include you in activities with his friends (especially couples), take you to family gatherings, hold your hand in public, buy you little gifts and practically fly across the room to meet you when you walk in the door. I agree your initial picker is off, but also think your relationship antenna is askew.

Another great resource is a YouTube guy I ran across when I was crushin’ hard on someone several years ago. It’s called “Make Him Yours” by Mark Rosenfeld and he offers advice to women on how to “read” men. His videos are amusing, but they’re also right to the point and almost painfully honest at times.

Best of luck!