Reply To: “I Expect More Sex From My Wife of 15 Years”

I know I already wrote a lot but I also wanted to add…perimenopause/menopause really messes with your sex hormones, and your wife is at that age. Women’s estrogen and testosterone plummet and their sex drives often follow suit. And when you throw in hot flashes, sleep issues, mood changes, and other effects, it’s really hard to feel sexy. Putting pressure on someone whose libido has tanked has the opposite effect from what you’re looking for.