Reply To: “My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want to Be a Stepdad”

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Miss MJ
March 27, 2024 at 5:22 am #1128642

This should be a deal breaker, LW. If she hasn’t already, your daughter will pick up on the fact that your bf only tolerates her and that’s a horrible way to live. Being The Other Guy’s Kid will ruin your relationship with your daughter because it puts her on the outside – basically she’s the third wheel instead of you all being a family unit. Doubly so if you have a kid with this bf and he plays favorites (which he will). You need to break up with him, for your, your daughter and even his sake. Find someone who is who you want them to be, not someone you’re hoping will change into someone they’ve shown you they’re not.