Reply To: The wounds are still fresh

If he came to your door with flowers and said “I’m sorry I ghosted you, I’m a fool.” would you let him back in? Would you ever trust him again? If not, then be done with him. He’s a user and he hurt you. Not because you’re “unworthy” but because he’s not a good person. Good people don’t hurt other people. Period.

If you would let him back in and sleep with him again – then no one here can help you. He’s happy getting a little sumthin’ – he’s not going to fall in love with you if you sleep with him again.

If you are unsatisfied with your life, do something about it. Volunteer, take a class, do things that you enjoy for the sake of enjoying them. No one person is going to make your life perfect. Your happiness is your responsibility.