Reply To: The wounds are still fresh

You need to focus on yourself- your mental health- and not this guy. So what if you see him? Ignore him. Do not be bothered by him. His window is open? So? Close your window or go take a walk. You are an adult who makes her own choices in life. You shouldn’t get involved with people who live next door to you, work with you, etc. This is why, because if it doesn’t go well, then you’re stuck with the awkwardness of the neighbor. Learn from this, stop beating yourself up about it, put it behind you. People sleep with them wrong people and get their feelings hurt. It’s not a huge life failing, unless you make it to be.

You need to move on from this woe is me bit and move on. Get a job if you can, try a new hobby. Call friends. Ignore the idiot next door. Stop making yourself feel bad by telling yourself how terrible everything is. If you can’t do that, you should see a dr and discuss these feelings with them. Good luck.