Reply To: “I’m in Triad Relationship and Don’t Know How to Get Out”

I just read the last part too and picked up on the door lock thing. That sounds like beyond emotional abuse and into sexual abuse / reproductive coercion / rape. At a very minimum not allowing you to have physical boundaries or agency. That’s very very serious and it’s abuse. Please find a way to talk to people without your husband being aware. You do have a whole life ahead of you, and your kids shouldn’t be in this situation seeing this as the model of adult love.