Reply To: Baby Shower Advice

Yeah, wow. You’re about to be a mother and you can’t stand up and say what you want with your own mom. I don’t think it’s nice to call s9meine crazy or NPD and believe me, my mom is likely full of undiagnosed things but hats beside the point, it is no different Han if she is a drunk, or physically abusive, or racist, you let her have whatever hold and control over your life. You have allowed her to run rampant on your life, it seems to the point that you don’t feel comfortable saying hell no to your self described NPD mom, well hoo baby, buck up and get a different therapist or tell yours that you need actionable methods for coping with your OVERBEARING mother ASAP now before she’s bottle feeding your baby, or exclusively feeding him coconut milk or whatever crazy scheme she is going to have. That should be your concern, not Sharon, although that sounds really embarrassing and weird.

You need to start setting boundaries with her now or you are going to lose your mind when yo7 are a new mom and she’s mothering your baby and you are in the back, washing diapers. Seriously, snap out of it. This is a big deal.

I’m sorry if I’m harsh but you need a wake up call. You control the relationship with her. Stop this bullshit now, before she named your son and picks out his nickname, too. You give her the control she has over your life. Make some boundaries.

Good luck with the baby, and all the Sharon’s.