Reply To: “Do Her Mixed Signals Mean She Wants Me Back?”

What did you sniff out in 3-4 months?
You sniffed nothing out, your post is literally about how she dumped you, and you don’t seem to be able to understand and swallow that truth.

Therapists go through extensive personal therapy, and the fact that you reeled at that suggestion and got defensive at it (what’s to be ashamed of?) don’t not seem to understand elementary human behavior, and went online to seek advice makes me think you have very little understand of human emotion and behavior.

I admit her “I love you as a person,” line was clearly misguided. But women say this a few times starting out, when they have to let a guy down easy before they learn- nope, the stubborn ones will even use this gentle breakup line as an opening…my god, do I need to be…blunt, direct, rude?

If you were in mental health, wouldn’t you be able to cope with these feelings, instead of lashing out at us strangers over giving you honest advice? I am sorry even your friend seem to be scared of telling you the truth. It is over with the lady, but you sniffed that out months ago, right?