Reply To: “I’m Not Sure Where To Go From Here”

Your options here are pretty clear:

Stay and know that he’s cheating. He already cheated once. You stayed. He has absolutely no reason to stop cheating now.

Boomerang when you leave and then he comes crawling back (already happened once at his direction) and be off kilter for the rest of your relationship because you’ll know he’s likely cheating, or is about to toss you out again, or is pulling other nonsense.

Go. Just go. Don’t look back. Block him. Learn from this. Someone who cheats to this level needs either a ENM relationship or no relationship. You need what you need and this guy is never going to give it to you.