Reply To: How Can I Stay With My Soulmate When He Won’t Stand Up For Me?

He’s at her house while he FaceTimed you and what did you say?

He’s cheating on you. He’s been cheating on you and if he called you from her house, he’s either an idiot or he wants you to see what he’s doing. I don’t know why you accept his lies and blame. Why do you just keep taking it?

I really would encourage you to break up with the cheating sack of shit, get home your own way, and never spend anytime with any of those assholes again. You know why he hangs out with pieces of shit who don’t care about him? He is also a piece of shit.

He’s never going to shake her loose because he doesn’t want to. She’s not going anywhere and seems to enjoy making your life miserable. He likes making you miserable, too. I would really question everything you think about him. You don’t feel comfortable talking to him. If you get upset he what- says it coming out of nowhere and thus unacceptable? When have you ever spoken up for yourself?

I wonder if you slept with a guy friend and told him a year later how he would take it.

He doesn’t respect you, love you or care for you. I’m really sorry but you deserve a better man than this.

Reading your post, your people pleasing tendencies and need to “not make a scene” ever is really alarming to me. Do you have friends, family? This bf of yours has stomped all over your sense of what is normal and okay in a relationship. I hope you take som time after this relationship to think and heal. You don’t have to be quiet or submissive to others.