Reply To: How Can I Stay With My Soulmate When He Won’t Stand Up For Me?

Are you willing to repeat this nonsense for the rest of your life?

I think you and your bf are still trying to figure out who you are – you’re still trying to please people who wouldn’t spit on you if you were on fire. Why? Is it because if you gave your bf an ultimatum you think he’d choose them? Because based on your story, I think he’d choose them – I mean, according to him he was sexually assaulted by his friend/ex and he has swept that shit under the rug – that to me says his need for this friend group is not healthy.

This person is great when it’s just the two of you, but when pressed to put you first… he simply doesn’t.