Reply To: How Can I Stay With My Soulmate When He Won’t Stand Up For Me?

A soul mate certainly would not do that to his soul mate. First off, the whole cheating thing would be a deal breaker for me. If he is still around his ex, there is always the possibility that he may do stuff with her. Plus, you accepting his ex is going to be a problem down the road. Him not standing up for you will be a problem. If his friends a big role in his life, that is unlikely to change.

If you really want to make things work, consider therapy. However, if you’re having this many problems, I would leave him. Maybe that’s just me, but if you’re having these problems already, things are unlikely to change. I would sit him down and have a serious talk about the situation. That way, you can reevaluate the situation and decide what you want to do.