Reply To: Should I end it now or is the worth suffering?

All of the advice and comments above are on the money. You sound very insecure and controlling. The way you repeat that “she does this or this and I told her I don’t mind” comes off as the opposite, you do mind. You keep repeating the don.t mind as if convince yourself, her or us. Also, she sounds too way tied into what her parents want or think. This is just not going to work out.