Reply To: “What is An Appropriate Amount of Texting in a New Relationship?”

I think you kind of just have to take it slow and find the right groove. You’re texting too much if his responses are few and brief compared to your volume of messages. A person who’s interested and excited doesn’t leave you hanging. If you’re finding yourself doing all the reaching out, all the work to set up and confirm dates, then he’s not very interested and you should take a big step back and see if he takes a step forward. It sounds like you two are far from having defined anything, so I would say host see how this goes for a bit before having a talk about communication.