Reply To: Unsure to move-in with my messy boyfriend:is it irrational?

No one seems the mess the same in the relationship. You have to compromise. We do dishes nightly, not immediately after dinner. Smudges on a mirror to neither of us are a big deal. You can’t expect him to see things the same way you do. But you can lay out ground rules and compromises. Do you use one day every week or every 2 weeks to clean. Like those smudges on the mirror, water on the counter next to the sink, etc.