Reply To: Unsure to move-in with my messy boyfriend:is it irrational?

Dear CanadaGoose,
No worries, I am not offended by your kids’ analogy. And it’s not far from reality of how adults think in many contexts. Thank you for your suggestions, it really does help. I will come back to give an update at the end of March!
Update: He had done the three things I listed which he put in his calendar, all on Monday, I got to his place at 22h30 after my volleyball training to a better looking apartment and a warm dinner. I was grinning from ear to ear.
Cheers to all!