Reply To: DW Community Catch-up Thread

It just seems as simple to me as, yeah, I could anticipate that a sister might be a little annoyed to have her sibling jump in with a wedding date 8 weeks before her booked date. And that might cause some unwanted family dynamics. So maybe fiancé should have cleared it first with his mom and sister to avoid putting his wife-to-be in an awkward spot. No one’s a brat or a bridezilla necessarily, it’s just one of those things you have to tiptoe around a bit.

Personally I would change my date now, before they come at me and ask me to. Because they might, and then I’m really in a one-down position. Doing it proactively would give me more power.