Fiancé was stunned, as was I. He is not good at standing up to her so I had to defend myself. (We had a long conversation on the ride home about how that was not okay either and he has to stand up for himself and for me if we are going to be a family.)
I was trying not to cry in front of his family and she just stared me down and refused to back down so that is all I need to know about her as a person. Even if we got married and had a tiny wedding this fall, she would not be okay with it. So it’s a lose/lose situation.
Yes I put down the deposit on the venue and the florist so if we cancel I’d be out about $1,ooo, which in the grand scheme of things is a drop in the bucket if we can just get married and not deal with her by running away. And it would take wild horses to get me to go to her wedding after this.