That sounds lovely @ver.
Honestly, I greatly enjoyed our low key wedding and we had a fabulous honeymoon in Portugal. None of it was really that stressful. However, if I were to do it all over again, I’d fucking elope or go to the courthouse. Every day, I wanted to just be married and elope. I’m a people pleaser by nature and managing others expectations is hard.
Might I suggest one thing? Get a photographer. We hired one that specializes in candid shots and I’m so glad we had the day documented.