“I’m in Love with my Roommate”
I am a 36-year-old guy who is sharing a two bedroom, two bath townhouse with a female roommate, Shelly, who is 43. She and I have been single pretty much the whole time, and we spend a lot of time together. We’ve gotten to be close friends, and we know each other very well. About six months after we moved in together, I started to get sexual feelings for her, and I knew I had a problem when her ex-husband stayed over one night when he was in town. I was jealous, and I began to not only lust for her, but love her, too. I have not brought this up to…