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    October 25, 2022 at 1:07 pm #1116621

    Hi guys. I was with this guy fir almost six months but then stuff started to go wrong. By stuff I mean he’d show up late, show less effort, takes ages to reply back and then be childish about it.

    In addition to that if we’d be out and I didn’t listen or spoke over him he would raise his voice at me as that was him “only way to get through to me”. I didn’t like this. I understand I was wrong for not listening but it still felt wrong. I decided the rs was too mcuh for me and chose to break up in May. I did and he begged me to stay. I felt bad and considered giivng a second chance. I did.

    I realised it wasn’t really going well – he was putting in effort and trying to change but I was just not feeling it. Even now – we broken up but I don’t feel the same but he still wants me to try…

    What do I do??

    October 25, 2022 at 1:19 pm #1116622

    Do nothing. This just was not a good fit. You tried twice and you’re sure. You don’t need any more reason than that you’re not feeling it. And it doesn’t matter if he is; you’re not. So just tell him that unfortunately the chemistry is not there and you’re going to need to move on. And that for the good of both of you, you would like to stop talking. And then block him.

    Not that you need a reason, but raising his voice to you in public was a big red flag.

    October 25, 2022 at 4:10 pm #1116625

    Ugh, what you do is stop giving people a second and third chance just because they ask you to. Choose you. Make the best decision for your life and what you want, not this dude.

    Break up for good and block his number if he keeps begging.

    October 26, 2022 at 5:51 am #1116628

    Words are really easy, but his actions speak volumes. He’s only crying because he’s a man-baby that doesn’t like it when he’s not in control.

    You owe it to yourself to be with a partner that builds you up, not tears you down. You owe him nothing.

    October 26, 2022 at 1:50 pm #1116636

    Thank you guys all for the advice! The last one made me laugh haha 100% true.

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    October 27, 2022 at 10:03 am #1116658

    You don’t have to get back together with him because he wants it. You don’t need a reason to have broken up with him, and you don’t need a reason NOT to get back with him, and he doesn’t automatically deserve another chance. You know in your gut he’s not the right person for you. Don’t do it.

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    November 16, 2022 at 5:29 am #1116892

    Oh, girl, run away from this guy. He is really stupid. I think, you must remember, that you a queen. The whole world is at your feet. I gave people like that a second chance. It was bad. Run, dear, run

    November 18, 2022 at 7:46 pm #1116902


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