Am I being disrespectful??
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Why don’t you tell him that when he acts like that, you don’t want to talk to h8m and it’s made you upset?
Why do you apologize?
What Kate said.
It sounds like you are scared of upsetting him.
You lied over and over when he was asking what you were doing, you apologized at soon as that was required and agreed that you wouldn’t do it again.Are you okay?
That is not okay. Are you happy in this relationship?
Do you have friends, what do they say about him and this behavior?I’m not saying you gotta break this off, but if there is something about your partner that causes you dread, and you don’t feel that you can address it head on… that is a pretty big sign that this relationship is not long term.
See if you can talk it out – but I hope you don’t end up apologizing again for putting your own needs first when he was supposed to be supporting you. I have to say this just screams “Pay attention to me! I’m helping you and you have to acknowledge my kindness by putting all of your attention on me!”
