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Am I being unreasonable?

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    Erin
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    Hi dear, I just left my boyfriend because there were constantly weird situations like this. Each time, my instincts told me it felt “off”. Fearing being “the psycho girlfriend”, I told myself I was being paranoid. It was always an internal ping pong match between paranoia and instincts. And this was relationship #3 of “weirdisms” around other women. (I’m working with therapist to break this pattern). This is all to say, TRUST YOURSELF. i feel shame for undermining my intelligence, common sense, conscience and instincts. If it smells like crap and looks like crap… 99% of the time it’s crap.

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    Anonymousse
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    Agreed. Unlearning to doubt your intuition really needs to be taught in like, middle school. Not everyone deserves your time, another chance, whatever.

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