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    June 17, 2019 at 6:50 pm #845586

    Congratulations @Hizzy! And that’s a beautiful photo! ๐Ÿ™‚

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    June 18, 2019 at 1:51 pm #845653

    Congrats @thehizzy!

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    June 25, 2019 at 7:44 am #846220

    Lots of changes have happened here! I am going to grad school this fall and my BF has been trying to find work in that city, and last Thursday he got a job offer! He has accepted, and because his move in time/work start date is around the same time as me moving, we decided to look into a place together ๐Ÿ™‚

    First time living with a guy I am dating, it has been 2 years and we are both ready. Even sent him the list of things to do before moving in, and we pretty well have all the key ones discussed. Very excited, but also nervous as it will be a new experience for us. Otherwise, holy crap the moving coordination, splitting our stuff and determining a place is so time consuming.

    We are in the area this weekend for a wedding and since it is going to be raining most of the time, unless it changes, we are going to do some apartment visits.

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    TheHizzy
    June 25, 2019 at 10:35 am #846254

    So, 11 days post wedding and still had a great time. Just hella sad to go back to work. Can I just be retired now? Referred to FMH has Husband several times now – still feels odd.

    Yay Cleo on him getting a job and moving in. Exciting time!!

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    June 25, 2019 at 12:07 pm #846263

    Belated congrats Hizzy!! Just MH now?

    Also congrats Cleo!! So excited for you!

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    June 26, 2019 at 5:59 pm #846362

    So dude I was hanging out/hooking up with ended things (I posted about him earlier).
    Turns out I gave him a chance and ended up liking him a lot, wanting something with him. When I started showing more interest he got weird, it was always me chasing him and it got old. Just recently he told me he doesn’t want a relationship after I thought things we’re back to normal. So he ended things because he says its affecting me.
    This rejection sucks because I was very reluctant at first and when I gave in he bailed. Anyways, all kinds of rejection suck. I’m really tired you guys. Feel lonelier than ever, failure after failure.

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    June 27, 2019 at 9:30 am #846440

    @Ale I’m sorry! Isn’t the the one who initially came on super strong talking about wanting a relationship immediately? That sucks, and this probably just goes to show he’s not that great. If it’s any consolation, I was single for about four years between relationships with lots of false starts to relationships that didn’t work out and some rejection. It was hard, sometimes really hard! But it helped to take dating breaks and fill my life with activities/hobbies/vacations/you name it that were for me and only me.

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    TheHizzy
    June 27, 2019 at 9:42 am #846442

    @Ale I’m sorry. Rejection is hard. And a casual relationship is really hard to do and always has a expiration date. I’m sorry you’re going through this right now. Take some self care time for sure!!

    And yes it’s just MH now. Trying to decide if I’m changing my name at all.

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    June 27, 2019 at 11:35 am #846467

    Yes, @Copa this is the one. Even went so far as to call me his girlfriend a couple times and I let it slide and didn’t say anything.
    Anyways. It will get better I know.

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    TheHizzy
    June 27, 2019 at 11:43 am #846469

    @Ale I had a FWB who made it clear we were just “friends” and then he did confusing relationship stuff. And then he got mad when I felt like we were more based on HIS actions.

    Some guys can’t handle it.

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    June 27, 2019 at 2:38 pm #846489

    I’m sorry @Ale – that blows. It will get better.

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    June 29, 2019 at 11:47 pm #846640

    @Ale, I am sorry ๐Ÿ™ It hurts more I imagine seeing as he kind of lead you on to believe there could have been something stronger. Don’t take it too hard on yourself, you only did what you thought was appropriate given the cues from him.

    treat yo’self this week as a reminder of what you are truly worth.

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