I am currently in a 5 year relationship with my partner who also is the sponsor of my residency visa awaiting approval.

2 Months ago I visited a fine dining restaurant and met a sommelier who had caught my eye. At the end of my dining experience he gave me a dessert wine on the house before kneeling down to ask if he could see me again. I immediately said that I am flattered however I am already taken. He respected my answer and we ended it there. Since then, he had not left my mind and I am considering going back to see him again and to explore the spark we had. He seems to be the complete opposite of my current partner and has the maturity and class that I am looking for in a man. I just feel like I’m a mum to my current partner and in return I have not been invited on a date or been told that I’m appreciated, missed or loved. This has also been the reason why I have not been intimate with him for 6 months now. Looking for advise.