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February 14, 2020 at 12:56 pm #875236CopaParticipant
Yeah, but without simply shrugging it off he even exclaimed it was an almost kiss!
Honestly? If I’d had that same awkward hug with a family member or friend and I’d been drinking, I might’ve made a bad joke about it, too.February 14, 2020 at 1:17 pm #875237AllyGuest
I couldn’t really put it into words until just now, but initially the feeling itself when you just know there is something different in the vibration of another person towards you that made me feel uneasy, in the first place.February 14, 2020 at 1:25 pm #875238KateKeymaster
So trust your gut then! It’s really that simple. If he’s making you uneasy, you should avoid him.February 14, 2020 at 1:33 pm #875239ktfranParticipant
Let’s say you were getting vibes from this person. You’re acting exact opposite of how you should act. @Kate gave you plenty of advice, over and over, of what you should do, which is avoid him and tell him to stop if you’re uncomfortable. It is so easy to avoid, ignore or deflect people who make you uncomfortable. It’s a skill everyone should learn.
You’ve dismissed that advice over and over. Because of that, it looks as though you like the attention or him and you are welcoming it.
Nothing is adding up with your original posts and your replies.February 14, 2020 at 1:42 pm #875240AllyGuest
Well I know how to avoid it but since these were the only situations that happened recently I could only reflect to these 😉February 14, 2020 at 2:18 pm #875245CurlyQueParticipant
Summary: From what you have written, none of us think he is in love/lust with you, nor is he acting bizarre.
HOWEVER, if you have an uneasy feeling about him then trust that, and avoid him and set physical boundaries.February 19, 2020 at 6:26 pm #875774dirtorsoilGuest
Its not a problem if you want to bang out your married cousin… If this weren’t fake as hell it would be 50 shades of gross.February 20, 2020 at 9:39 am #875834ArtsyGirlGuest
Me: Ugg I need a break from reading Freud for my university class, I can catch up on DearWendy
5 minutes later
Me: Okay…back to the normalcy of FreudFebruary 21, 2020 at 1:40 am #875946LeonGuest
The smileys just add to the creepyness and the uneasy feeling I got from reading this weird letter 🙂
You should try therapy. The way you describe the events is… strange. So a check with a mental health specialist would help you in the long run.February 21, 2020 at 5:16 am #875953AllyGuest
Emojis can just freak out everyone that I need therapy for using 2 :Ds??
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Happy day everyone!February 21, 2020 at 7:40 am #875975KateKeymaster
You really do need therapy. First it was a one-night stand whose room you left your earrings in, then your cousin, then someone in the audience that you’re obsessing over and looking for signs. Get a grip.February 21, 2020 at 7:51 am #875979FyodorGuest
Ohhhhh. I didn’t realize that this was the same person who thought that she was going to have a family with the guy who didn’t remember her name. I go back and forth on whether she is trolling or sincerely delusional.