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  • Max
    November 25, 2023 at 3:42 pm #1126798

    The dating Apps don’t get me anywhere. I have struggles meeting in person. I guess I don’t fit their appearance criteria. A few ladies that like me are either married or prefer being single. I’ve chatted with others on one dating app and they basically say the same. I chatted with a lady and she said the same that it’s hard to meet.

    So I seem to have better experience video chatting with foreign females. I know a few may be scammers. Yet a couple may be sincere.

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    Kate
    November 25, 2023 at 4:17 pm #1126799

    I know some guys who have done a lot of the chatting with foreign women (don’t call women “females”), and the women seemed to be real people who weren’t outright asking for money. My husband has an older divorced friend who went to the Philippines and met up with a much younger woman. I think some of them do want to meet a wealthy man and get married and get a green card. Others I think might be prostitutes. But I think they all want something, right? Like why would an attractive young woman need to go outside of her own area to meet men?

    I think you’re better off getting a life coach or dating coach and working on your confidence, social skills, and stuff so you’re better set up to find a real connection in your own local area. Talking to foreign women online is probably not going to bear much fruit.

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    Anonymousse
    November 25, 2023 at 5:48 pm #1126803

    Ahhh yes, the ever-single man who talks about women, actual other human beings as “females,” as if there’s something inherently different about them. As if we’re a totally different species. It’s really dehumanizing.

    That might be your problem right there. I find that men who call women “females,” have also started down the rabbit hole of incel, women-hating, anti-feminist bullshit. Treat women as other people and maybe ask your friends and family for tips. Do not ask women why they won’t date you or be rude to women. I suggest therapy or a dating coach. You may think it’s nothing, but I can tell you women pick up on the tiniest things you say and do. If you talk about women as a whole like “women won’t date me, women don’t like to talk to me, females that are foreign will.” Can you see that? We are not all the same. If no woman local will date you, what is going on that is putting women off?

    If you’re unattractive, that doesn’t matter. Stop blaming it on looks, it’s probably your personality, sorry to say. Supermodel hot women date men that look like dogs. You need to treat women well and maybe work on being funny. Being respectful and not crude is key.

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    Marxoff
    November 25, 2023 at 6:14 pm #1126804

    Well our culture tends to push the narrative that all men are evil. So maybe it’s the American culture that has brought hatred for men. After all it is only normal for a lady to want a man. It seems that the culture today brands the name woman as if that is a bad term. Anonymousse it could be you follow Marxist rhetoric and that is unfortunate for you. Maybe you could go to some counseling yourself. Like learning how to not be such a hateful person you seem to be. After all today’s culture is steamed from colleges and universities pushing liberal socialism which is communism. So I suggest you should seek to get therapy for your hatred for the term females or woman which the liberal Marxist hates. I’m guessing your not a female. Maybe trans. I suggest you change your attitude towards nen. Because you’ll end up hurting a man the way you are going

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    November 25, 2023 at 6:37 pm #1126806

    Your response is absolutely uncalled for. @Anonymousse laid out the details of your problem, and you lashed out at her. The problem is 100% your personality.

    That is as nice and respectful as I can muster.

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    Kate
    November 25, 2023 at 6:57 pm #1126807

    Ah, there it is. This is why you can’t get a date, bud.

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    November 25, 2023 at 7:13 pm #1126808

    …and it’s not just that you’re conservative. Let’s dissect what you managed to reveal about yourself in just one single paragraph.

    “Well our culture tends to push the narrative that all men are evil. So maybe it’s the American culture that has brought hatred for men.”

    • You prove you have no media literacy skills.

    “Anonymousse it could be you follow Marxist rhetoric and that is unfortunate for you. Maybe you could go to some counseling yourself.”

    • You jump to conclussions about people who have revealed nothing about themselves.
    • You don’t know what Marxism is but won’t let that stop you from calling other people Marxist.

    “Like learning how to not be such a hateful person you seem to be.”

    “I’m guessing your not a female. Maybe trans. I suggest you change your attitude towards nen. Because you’ll end up hurting a man the way you are going ”

    • You don’t know the difference between “your and “you’re”
    • You think trans is an insult
    • You offer unsolicited advice to people you yourself solicited for advice
    • You see criticism as hate, even when you were the one who asked for advice. This tells us you have the durability of a gentle snowflake.

    “After all today’s culture is steamed from colleges and universities pushing liberal socialism which is communism.”

    • I have no idea what any of this means, but I know that it’s the blogosphere talking.

    Like bro, what are you doing here? You came here asking for advice and got it and then went off on weird right wing talking points. Do you do this in real life? Would you talk to Anonymousse that way if she were standing right in front of you? Do you really think you can act this way on the internet and it’s not leaking in to your in-person interactions?

    You need a media detox, because whatever it is you are consuming is making you into a really unlikable person.

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    Anonymousse
    November 25, 2023 at 7:26 pm #1126811

    LOL I am a happily married woman, dude. I know exactly why women won’t date you. And so do we all!

    It’s not your looks, it’s because you’re a sad, pathetic, hateful man. That’s why women won’t even go on a date with you. We can smell the incel on you. Good luck finding love with your hateful mind. Meanwhile, I’m fifteen years into a loving relationship with the best guy I know. LOL.

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    Anonymousse
    November 25, 2023 at 7:28 pm #1126812

    I follow Marxist rhetoric? You are a fucking idiot. You literally know nothing about me and you somehow bring up political ideology? That’s why you can’t get laid, dummy.

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    Anonymousse
    November 25, 2023 at 7:32 pm #1126813

    I hate the words women? Huh? I said women about forty times. You accuse me of being hateful and trans while I gave you actual good tips.

    Your personality sucks and you go right for political talking points out of nowhere to defend yourself because you are weak and pathetic. I know it’s because you’re a sad sack incel. If you were hot, maybe womens could get past that (not for long) but you’re angry AND not nice to look at? Nope. Totally makes sense.

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    Anonymousse
    November 25, 2023 at 7:38 pm #1126814

    Before I even read your post I knew what it was. You couldn’t even put in effort to write a full title. Dating local hard. Yeah. Dating IS hard. Being a hateful conservative man who thinks calling a stranger on the internet “trans” is both an insult and okay to say…well I have never felt more confident in my nailing the advice. I am a woman, and way out of your league.

    You are an incel. What’s it like to hate the thing you think you want to screw/date? Sounds pretty messed up. Must be weird.

    And you’re wrong, I love men, and especially my husband but none of them are hateful, disrespectful jerks like you, so maybe consider changing that aspect of yourself.

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    Kate
    November 25, 2023 at 7:41 pm #1126815

    It’s because you’re short.

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