Did I do a terrible thing?

[Kate]

This isn’t bullying. We don’t even call names here. We told you you made bad decisions and to work on it.

[Idk2021]

Yes but I DID do what you asked and y’all
Continued to bully and insult me. As I said this isn’t even about me anymore. I just have sat here and watched y’all bully everyone who has ever come here for help and it concerns me because even though I am ok other people aren’t. It’s really just some food for thought. Advice is one thing but you don’t have to beat people down.

[Kate]

No one has insulted you. I don’t allow name calling.

[Bittergaymark]

WTF? Somebody is pounding on my door? OMIGOD! They’re splintering it with an axe! They… they say they have some to avenge my bad advice from six months ago!? The traced me from my profile image?!

Oh no.

This is like The Shining!
Th-th-they are inside.
Th-th-they have a gun.

One are pointing it at me.
Surely, this is all just a mistake!
Dear God! This can’t be hap——————————

[Copa]

We literally found out an hour ago that you contacted her. Up until then, we only knew that you’d had the dog for a week, had done nothing to return it, and were refusing to unblock her despite putting her in this situation in the first place.

What was the other post you made on here? I’m super curious.

[Idk2021]

You don’t have to call names to be a bully. All I’m saying. You asked me “are you ok?” I’m a very condescending way when I suggested I call the shelter with the girls information. How is that not bullying?

[Idk2021]

Especially considering that in the scope of things I am absolutely not ok or I wouldn’t be writing and advice forum

[Kate]

It’s not bullying to tell you you made bad decisions and to work on it in therapy. Stop.

[ele4phant]

OP – I say this with no snark and just concern.

Are you okay? Based on the initial event you described and your reactions here, something doesn’t seem right. I am concerned about *you* and your mental health.

I’m glad you have a therapist – you’re seeing them tomorrow? If not, please check in with them soon.

[Peggy]

You are right L.W., this has gone on far too long. People who gave well intended and practical and helpful advice are now being taken to task for being bullies by you. I think you have serious issues, as I stated before ( as did others) and you need help to understand why you took the actions you did. People do react to things differently, of course and they are various ways of
responding to situations. But no one on here, or anyone I know in life, and those living in my sketchy neighborhood, would do what you have done.
You need therapy to address this and likely other issues. I fail to see how suggesting this to you, is bullying.

[Kate]

Also ask yourself why you would continue to follow a forum, ~for years~ where you believe bullying to be the norm; to post on that forum asking for advice; and to keep engaging enthusiastically.

[Idk2021]

I’m done engaging. I’d be happy if you would delete this whole post. Peggy you seem like a decent person. Kate I think you need therapy more than anyone.

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