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do you think she wants to be like someone who doesn’t have any social or no?

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    avatarJayy
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    Hey so I don’t have any social media but my friend found this girl who we went to school with on Twitter and she wrote Always in between wanting to post a lot on social media & wanting to delete all socials & be like that person you went to school with that you think of randomly & hope they’re doing well. do you think she wants to be like someone who doesn’t have any social or no?

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    avatarEssie
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    I think she means exactly what she said.

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    avatarron
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    Essie — Was that just a semi-standard response or could you actually understand that message?

    #879305 Reply
    CopaCopa
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    Is this the same LW who stared at his high school crush at the mall and wondered if she wore purple for him?

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    avatarEssie
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    @ron – I took her comment to mean she was torn between being on social media or not being on it, with a little joke thrown in about how people would wonder why she’d disappeared, and she’d be this mysterious figure. I think the LW is interpreting it to mean that she wants to be like him, and it’s not that at all.

    @copa – I think you’re right. He’s the guy who’s obsessed with this girl and thinks she’s sending him secret messages through her clothes, and now through random comments on social media that have nothing to do with him.

    #879382 Reply
    avataranonymousse
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    OMG. This poster is legitimately terrifying.

    #879389 Reply
    avatarEssie
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    @anonymousse, I feel the same way. I’m really hoping it’s just someone who has trouble understanding social situations or social cues. If it is the same guy, I remember from the last post that the woman pointed him out to her boyfriend, so at least she’s aware of the situation and her boyfriend is as well.

    LW: She’s not talking about you. Grown women don’t send secret messages like that. If a woman likes you, she’ll come over to you to talk, she’ll want to spend time hanging out with you. This woman has a boyfriend, so she’s not going to want to go out with you.

    If you have a therapist that you work with, it’s very important that you talk to them about this. It’s important for you to understand. If you don’t have a therapist, you should make an appointment with one. If you don’t know how to do that, ask your parents for help.

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    bittergaymarkBittergaymark
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    I honestly have no idea what this tread is even asking. I’ve read it three times… and I still don’t get it.

    #879428 Reply
    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    This one was incomprehensible even for me.

    #879429 Reply
    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    Omg. Some friend of my husband just posted on FB that her Zoom AA meeting got invaded by white supremacists who chanted racist and misogynistic shit, waved a nazi flag, took over her computer screen and waved their dick around, and it made her feel terrible, violated, and upset.

    WHAT in the FUCK!

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    avatarKate
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    Sorry that was supposed to be in the corona virus thread but whatever, sorry Jay.

    #879433 Reply
    avatardinoceros
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    Who cares?

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