I would definitely buy the “the answer is NO GUYS.”

Also, a quick and dirty version of the standard sort of MOA question, like “My boyfriend has three kids by three different women. What should I do?” on the front, with “MOA!” really huge on back with “(Move on Already)” in tiny letters underneath? That would be awesome.

Also, there have been a couple of “That isn’t a relationship” answers, and that would be awesome on a t-shirt. And definitely yes to “When someone tells you who they are, listen.” I would totally buy that on a t-shirt.

“You Dim Sum, You Lose Some” 🙂

I’ve always been fond of spouting off something like “Just because nothing is outwardly WRONG in a relationship, doesn’t mean it’s RIGHT.” Mostly because we see a lot of people staying in relationships by default, because there’s nothing *bad* about it, per se. And that bugs me!

Firestar you just made my day, week and month. I wonder if this is what Addie pray always feels like everyday. Although what a classy quote. I’m hoping I was having an off day when I said that.

“Having needs is not the same thing as being needy!” That was courtesy of yours truly, I just have to claim my credit haha. Glad it spoke to people!

“You can’t have your cake and bang it too” is classic, love it.

I also really liked what Anna said on today’s letter regarding monogamy and men claiming it isn’t natural. Something about living in caves and not eating with silverware… so true!

@AnotherWendy – Yes, we do communicate, mostly via text message. We’ve spoken on the phone a couple times. He’s lonely and miserable down there and nowhere close to making enough money to move out of his parents’ house. He’s entertained the possibility of coming back to Ohio but I was dead serious when I said I would only consider taking him back if he comes with an engagement ring, and I’ve made that perfectly clear. I’m not wasting any more of my time.