January 16, 2020 at 5:25 am #872309LenaGuest
We will see how things work out next Tuesday…It’s more the fact that I started to develop feelings for a one night hookup that bugs me…January 16, 2020 at 6:16 am #872315KateKeymaster
Well, “started to develop feelings” is one thing. That makes it sound pretty normal. You didn’t just start to develop feelings, you decided he’s “the one” and fate brought you together.January 16, 2020 at 6:58 am #872320LenaGuest
Regardless of everything that’s been said, one can never know…:)January 16, 2020 at 7:05 am #872322UNKNOWNGuest
If He doesn’t even know your name you shoud break that relation.
This isn’t love, that feeling when you saw him not is love.
If he liked you he had have said something like, “Of course” “we can meet on Friday night at 9.” “Let’s meet at the centre.”
He would have made it into a formal relation and maybe even followed up talking with you more.
He didn’t. I’m sorry but it is true.
The boys are not confusing so if you see that the boy are vague or seem not interested, they are not interested.
UnknownJanuary 16, 2020 at 8:43 am #872330LenaGuest
>I wrote him he should just leave my earrings at the local café we both know one of the waiters of, and he replied that he’d rather meet up in a preferebly more sober state we did last time…>January 16, 2020 at 9:12 am #872337LisforLeslieGuest
I think you’ve regrounded yourself and that’s a great place to start. If I had one last piece of advice it’s that the feelings of butterflies that you get is attraction, not love. It’s chemistry – which is great. And you may have chemistry with a lot of people, and you may fall in love with a few people too. That’s ok too.
Don’t confuse chemistry and love – I don’t think you can have love without chemistry but you can definitely have chemistry without love.January 16, 2020 at 2:35 pm #872374LenaGuest
Thank you LisforLeslie 🙂 And everybody else who commented, you helped me a lot to see clear.:)January 17, 2020 at 12:12 am #872423LeonGuest
I’m super invested in this thread. Please keep us updated.
He sounds really douchebag, for the record. Btw, You should try to write fantasy. I mean. Someone before wrote literally how your event went, and it sucked for its mundanity, but somehow you managed to twist it under a really cloudy and sweetened weird magical and light novelesque way. And sure it was entertaining (if it was fiction).January 17, 2020 at 4:22 am #872442LenaGuest
Hope you don’t think I’ve made up such story 😂January 17, 2020 at 10:59 am #872489AmeliaGuest
I’ve been chatting with this real dreamboat. He seems to dig me and kinda do too. So, he has this habit of sending me selfies, which I find kinda silly, but endearing. So, last night he sent me a bathroom selfie. Now I’m wondering whose robe is that in the background with the little hearts on?
What do I do? Do I ask him about it at the risk of scaring him away?
We’re not officially together, but I was hoping it could develop into something.January 17, 2020 at 11:39 am #872495anonymousseParticipant
You should ask him whose robe that is.January 17, 2020 at 12:25 pm #872500KateKeymaster
Um, probably his wife’s? Or someone he’s involved with seriously enough that she keeps a robe at his house? What do you think?
Say, “Oooh, sexy! Whose robe is that in the background with the little hearts on it?”
Kind of rude to hijack someone else’s thread, by the way.