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Found the one? – off my chest

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  • #872502 Reply
    avatarAmelia
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    🙈 Sorry, so embarrassed. I’m a rookie. Thought it was a new post. When I realised what I did, I didn’t know how to delete it. 😔

    #872503 Reply
    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    Don’t worry about it. But yeah, he’s got a significant other.

    #872505 Reply
    avatarLena
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    His mum’s maybe? 😀

    #872507 Reply
    CurlyQueCurlyQue
    Participant

    Why are YOU afraid of ruining your chance with him by asking? It’s a super easy question and one that shouldn’t ruin anything if he’s actually single (maybe living with his mother?)

    #872563 Reply
    avatarAmelia
    Guest

    I know for a fact he’s not living with his mother.
    So, I took the plunge and at first casually brought up the robe. He responded, but when I asked more directly what the story is – no response. I guess no answer is also an answer. Better to find out now.
    Thanks for your inputs.

    #872581 Reply
    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    You’re welcome. The right thing now is to block and delete him.

    #874634 Reply
    avatarmellanthe
    Participant

    1. You had a crush, and you guys got back in touch. Sometimes things are just coincidences – romance doesn’t have to start with meet cutes and fate. And not everything that starts off like a movie ends that way.

    2. It sounds like he doesn’t feel quite as strongly as you.

    3. it’s not a relationship after a bit of dancing and sex and some light flirtation. He doesn’t sound keen to get back to you or to take things further at all. This is not love – love isn’t born after a romp, or a couple of dances. It’s a relationship of equals who demonstrate tenderness and care for each other. He has demonstrated no care here. You’re also basically strangers at present.

    You can find a guy who looks at you. Who genuinely likes you. Who will want to spend time with you, get to know you, and will eventually fall in love with you. But you have to take everything one step at a time. Just focus on finding a guy you like, who treats you nicely, and take it from there.

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