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    Dear Wendy
    Keymaster

    Fair enough. I looked her up though and she does seem to be a stock broker.

    #718819 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    Oh, ok, good for her. She should buy a home then, why pay all that interest?

    #718820 Reply
    Dear Wendy
    Keymaster

    Totally agree.

    #718821 Reply
    MissDre
    Guest

    Yeah Kate, I’m not anywhere close to 6 figures lol. Let’s just say I’m “half” of 6 figures. I’m sure you can work out my income!

    This is the first year I’ve ever traveled in my life and it has been amazing! It’s not easy to afford, but I’ve been renting out my guest room so I can make it happen!

    Re: the mortgage thing, maybe she bought a big ass house that costs a shit ton of money. Or, I have no idea what the real estate market is there, but maybe houses cost millions of dollars there. I mean, in Toronto even the super rich people are struggling to afford homes, because homes in Toronto cost MILLIONS. So, unless you’re a millionaire you just rent.

    #718822 Reply
    MissDre
    Guest

    For the record, LW. I’m also in an ultra long distance relationship (an ocean between us) and we’re talking about moving.

    I think it makes more sense for him to move to me, because I bought my condo and have a mortgage, I own a car and all my furniture, I have multiple pets, all of my friends and family are here, my doctor is here, I’m a citizen here, I have healthcare here.

    My boyfriend has none of the above in his city. But he’s been pretty clear that he can’t move to me. He’s in a very niche field and there just aren’t any jobs for him in North America. If he came here, he’d be jobless.

    So, guess what! We’re talking about it! And we both have an open mind! I’m not sitting here demanding that he move to my country for LOVE. We’re both saying “Ok, let’s see how we can work this out.”

    #718825 Reply
    bondgirl
    Guest

    Yeah, it seems like this LW was simply looking for Wendy to agree with her and say, “yeah you’re right he SHOULD be 100% willing to move for love! And the rule definitely doesn’t apply to you because you don’t speak French!”

    Just enjoy your steamy French love affair for what it was, and look for a man a little closer to you.

    #718826 Reply
    Dear Wendy
    Keymaster

    I sent her a link to this thread and she wrote:

    Pfftt. Oh so you’re an internet bully too. Love it.

    For someone so published to get this few replies , stop embarrassing yourself. You’re such a joke its entertaining.

    Keep that post up. Im sure these little sour comments from your fans provides you with much needed ego boost and self confidence.

    Have fun with this. You can post as much as you want, comment as much as you like. I still have more financial and mental wealth than you.

    Enjoy, little girl.
    Xoxo LW

    She’s charming! I can’t imagine why her boyfriend hasn’t introduced her to a single friend or family member yet and isn’t jumping on a plane to go live with her and close the 21-hour (by flight!) distance between them.

    #718828 Reply

    I repeat: ????.

    #718830 Reply
    Skyblossom
    Participant

    The LWs need to be insulting when she didn’t get full agreement for her position says she is emotionally immature no matter what her income. If any of that is coming through when she meets up with the guy it’s no wonder he refuses to move to Australia.

    LW – Guess what, if you wanted to learn French you could be studying it right now. If you wanted to be able to speak to him in his language you could do so. You make not speaking French an excuse but it is a weak excuse.

    #718831 Reply
    Vathena
    Guest

    Well, I guess the short answer is that your BF just doesn’t love you as much as Wendy loves Drew.

    Also, this is a vacation relationship. Fairy tales are not real love.

    #718832 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    Yeahhhh I’m not buying the mental wealth (or the 7 figures still), Sorry. I buy 6. If English isn’t your first language then I take this back, but your writing is poor and grammatically messed up. And why don’t you learn French? You’re also not making obvious logical connections like, he doesn’t want to move to you, after spending time in your country at your home, therefore this isn’t meant to be that kind of relationship, therefore maybe it can be a hot fling. Fun!!!

    #718833 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    It’s also early morning here, international genius, if I understood your point about few replies.

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