Dude, I think you’ve wandered into the wrong forum. Kate is the moderator of these boards. She and BGM disagree on the regular, but she isn’t targeting you. You’re making a creepy, sexist ass of yourself with every comment you make.
Asking a woman “are you ok?” the way you just did, especially when talking about oppression of minority populations, implies that she’s somehow hysterical or overly emotional when she shouldn’t be. This is sexist garbage. Calling your girlfriend, a grown ass woman, “adorable” and your “buddy” like she’s 5 years old is creepy sexist garbage. Good for you that you feel no need to apologize for that? Gtfo, you need way more help than we can give you and I’m done engaging with this.
Right, I don’t dislike BGM as a person, and I definitely don’t give a fuck about you. What I don’t like is your creepy, obsessive attitude toward this mentally ill woman, your lack of concern for her well-being, and your inability to speak about her in any way that’s not infantilizing and self-centered.
If I like my GF I’m obsessive.
If I take her back I’m Creepy.
If I disagree with a woman I’m Sexist.
And Ofcourse I must be bad for her if her friends don’t like me, obviously.
Oh yeah! And I’m not allowed to say she’s adorable. My GF is 5’1 102lbs… she adorable Lol. That’s not “infantilizing” it’s her favorite compliment. Her nickname is “Roo Bear” and she calls me “BB” (after BB-8 in Star Wars, don’t ask I don’t get it either). My point Just being That just bcuz you wouldn’t enjoy that doesn’t mean she isn’t allowed to.
Bad for her? How is dating a successful man who adores her, and tries to understand her mental condition “bad for her”? Bcuz her friends don’t like? Her friends discontent is a arbitrary as Kate the Moderator
And I’m a professional.. instead of “gtfo” we end our communications with:
Ok, thanks for the comments! They definitely solidified my initial assessment of your creepy toxicity.
Also, that’s not how professionals end their communications, even in Arkansas where I worked with corporate at everyone’s favorite big box retailer for years. If you’re doing that in work emails, you should stop it and just sign off with a “Best.”