- November 13, 2019 at 6:46 pm #859102flgirl711Participant
Is this even possible? I’ve had a guy friend for a decade. He’s always been there through everything (abusive marriage, divorce, getting me from the ER, just crappy and also great life events). We started sleeping together a few years ago and then both had feelings at different times and other relationships got in the way. We just reconnected after a year and were going to meet to catch up. I’d want more at this point but don’t know if it’s worth the risk of putting myself out there. (I know I may backslide to the FWB). Don’t know if “the juice is worth the squeeze” of reconnecting as I like being single and enjoy my easy uncomplicated life of dogs, family, career and traveling.November 13, 2019 at 8:11 pm #859111KateKeymaster
I don’t think this is going anywhere. It’s been 10 years. With ample opportunity for a relationship to happen. It didn’t. Even after sleeping together you lost touch for a year. And you’re happy being single.November 13, 2019 at 9:14 pm #859121dinocerosParticipant
I agree with Kate. The fact that you guys were sleeping together and then let it go and no one seemed to care enough to do anything — it probably isn’t worth it. Especially if you think it’ll result in FWB and you don’t indicate that you necessarily want that.