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Got into a little conflict yesterday, who's the bigger asshole here?

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  • #851976 Reply
    bittergaymark
    Bittergaymark

    Um… yeah, the whole point of doing drug deals is to make wayyyyyyyy more than a FORTY DOLLAR profit. Talk about so NOT WORTH THE RISK.
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    HUNTER! Seriously. No, SERIOUSLY. You need to RETHINK your life. You are headed in a very bad direction. Pump the brakes. And change course.

    #851979 Reply
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    Kate
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    Also, omg, those redditors were right about WTF posting about conspiracy to commit a crime on your main account. Then you linked to it here. I know who you are, and so does anyone who, for example, saw the YouTube video you linked to. I found your Facebook in about 2 seconds. You mention constantly where you live. You use your real name. You are almost a legal adult. You have to stop being this stupid and careless.

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    Kate
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    Can I say also – although you have way bigger problems than this – that if you do smoke weed, it stays in your system for several days or over a month if you’re a regular user. A lot of jobs, probably particularly ones where you’d work with kids, will tell you to report for a drug test in 48 hours, and if you refuse you won’t get hired. I just had to take one and I was super paranoid even though I don’t do any of those drugs. They test for fake urine, adulterants, things people try to use to mask the weed in their system. The only way to get around it is to bring in someone else’s clean pee, but that’s a very difficult and risky thing to pull off, and you wouldn’t be able to. If I was a smoker, I would have just lost a very lucrative job opportunity.

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    Essie
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    OMG, I’m having flashbacks. Those reddit posts remind me of a guy I (briefly) dated when I was young and stupid. He also had no impulse control and no common sense, and thought he was a soooooper genius. Last I heard, he was in prison for felony theft.

    Hunter, you are not nearly as clever as you think you are. Your “ingenious plans” are hilariously stupid, and will blow up in your face. You’ve gotten away with a lot because people figure a 17-year-old is just a dumb kid, but the clock is running out on that excuse. You’re going to find the adult world is a lot less forgiving of obnoxious, childish behavior and petty crime.

    Like I said awhile back, life has some hard lessons in store for you.

    #851983 Reply
    bittergaymark
    Bittergaymark

    Yes. ALL of these making money scheme are profoundly dumb. Hilariously so.

    #851993 Reply
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    Fiona

    From what u wrote,I think u were right cause u didn’t do anything intentionally wrong and it wasn’t ur fault that u accidentally slammed the door and they didn’t listen to ur apology or anything so I don’t see why ur in the Wrong.I also have no idea how u managed to not say a word while they were yelling at u cause I would have said something and I think he shouldn’t have shouted at u for trying not to slam the door again ,I don’t see why that was a problem ,over all i think u were completely right and I would have done the exact same thing except the keeping ur mouth shut part I have no idea how u did that:))

    #851994 Reply
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    Hunter

    I kept my mouth shut because I’ve seen my brother, who’s 28, has gotten into all kinds of arguments and scraps over the years. I learned what kind of situations to keep my lips sealed in.

    One time when I was 10, we were on our way to a Halloween party in his truck, and he went off on some guy who was taking forever to move his car. We were in this house neighborhood (what’re those called again?) where all the kids go trick or treating too. It escalated into a potentially volatile situation right away, and e made me go to the party with his friends in their car while he was scrapping the guy (who said he was dealing with kids; this was before my brother’s own kids were born).

    #851995 Reply
    CurlyQue
    CurlyQue
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    Hunter, YES you didn’t react well when the lady yelled at you about the door. Next time be humble and apologize sincerely and multiple times if necessary. Were the adults over reacting by yelling at you and bringing another adult into the mix? Probably, but you can’t control their behavior and nor can we advise them. We can only advise you and you can only control your own behavior.

    ACT SMARTER. Linking us to your Reddit/youtube/etc was dumb. We’re strangers. I know you feel invincible and like you know everything ’cause you’re 17 but you need to ACT SMARTER. Get a part time job that’s legit and legal while you finish high school. No more hustles. No more rich quick schemes. Get in the rat race FIRST and then think of hobbies you could turn into side cash.

    #851996 Reply
    bittergaymark
    Bittergaymark

    Is Fiona actually Hunter? Place your bets…

    #851997 Reply
    lucia_la
    Lucia_la

    100%

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    Kate
    Keymaster

    No, I checked, Fiona is in another country. But she sounds really young.

    #851999 Reply
    lucia_la
    Lucia_la

    You can easily use a VPN to make your IP address appear as coming from another country.

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