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- June 23, 2019 at 9:41 pm #846104anonymousseMember
He wanted you to put out immediately, and you didn’t. That’s the guy he is. He doesn’t know you, or want to get to know you, he wants sex.
Instead of wondering why he’s lost interest, or seems angry, really think about the ways he showed you what he wanted all along, so you can avoid the next guy like this. He didn’t hint too much from what you wrote here, he was upfront about his interests.June 24, 2019 at 7:48 am #846127LoganGuest
He is pretty upfront about his needs and desires, I’m glad you have the self respect to stick to what you want, which is more time together before getting more intimate. He makes up a bunch of excuses, I would just leave it and look for someone who is more compatible and doesn’t bring up sex on the 1st, 2nd, 4rd date or ever, just lets it come with the flow from both ends.
Sex will happen when both parties feel its right, not one trying to get it in quickly leaving the other feeling they have been pressured into it and than feeling like a bag of dirt afterwards. Continue to stick with your intuitions and find the right person for you.June 24, 2019 at 3:43 pm #846163TrinaGuest
Thanks for everyone’s advice. I’m happy I didn’t do anything with him. I barely know him to have sex with him. If that means that he doesn’t want to speak to me then so be it. Thanks again.June 26, 2019 at 10:44 am #846307DonnaGuest
What Kate said.