- June 15, 2019 at 5:13 pm #845436
We have to wait because of insurance. We cant really afford it at the moment without insurance.
I dont really think youre understanding my point. I dont hate her being bi, i hate that it bothers me. It shouldnt. I dont want it to.
Im also not holding anything over her head. I NEVER tell her negative things about it because it not a negative thing. Its just who she is and I should be ok with it. Thats what im trying to say is that I want to be ok with it.
There have been a lot of helpful comments that I appreciate though, so thank you.June 15, 2019 at 8:07 pm #845438
You wrote that you hate that you hate that she’s bi. You wrote that in your original post.
You hate that it bothers you that she is bi.
Feelings aren’t always logical or rational. Admitting how you feel is the first step in trying to move the dial a little bit.
Marrying someone- whose sexuality you hate-seems like kind of an emergency situation in need of a session with a therapist. You could ask about sliding scale payments, or making payments for a session or two over a few months.